Early on in my Fellowship with RespectAbility I kept hearing the phrase “disability is not a monolith.” The definition of a monolith is a group of people who are thought of as being all the same. On the surface, it makes sense. No two people living with the same disability are the same or have the same experiences. However, I wondered what specific differences were important for me to be aware of to be a better ally. Learning about the different language choices and preferences felt like a significant piece to the puzzle. Having some previous knowledge of this didn’t mean I needed to stop learning. Language is constantly evolving, and since our words matter, I wanted to make sure this was an area I focused on.
The National Center on Disability and Journalism (NCDJ) has a comprehensive language style guide that breaks down different disability related terminology and diagnoses with background information and recommendations of inclusive, respectful language to use. Having access to a single source that covers a broad range of frequently discussed topics surrounding disability language etiquette has been an incredible asset in my learning journey.
It’s important to note that there is no universal rule on what language to use when describing someone with a disability. Only a person living with a disability can provide their preference, and those preferences will vary from person to person. You should always ask the person what language they prefer, but when you don’t have a direct source available, the NCDJ guide is a great tool to use. [continue reading…]