Faith Inclusion

Julian Gavino

Kabbalah, or Jewish mysticism, offers us a beautiful explanation for those who convert to Judaism. Conversion isn’t seen as a choice as much as it is a calling—specifically a calling from Abraham and Sarah who are considered the forebearers of Judaism. The souls of their children are thought to be dispersed throughout the world, some born to Jewish parents, and others not. When an individual converts, we believe their soul was Jewish all along, a long-lost soul that felt an intense pull toward the Jewish people destined to return home to their parents Abraham and Sarah.

This is what finding both a literal and spiritual space in Judaism felt like for me, coming home. [continue reading…]

Hannah Roussel

The Jewish High Holidays are a time of coming together. Many Jews return to their hometowns for traditional Rosh Hashana meals and to break Yom Kippur fasts with their families. Jews who attend synagogues frequently welcome people whose attendance is more sporadic. The latter group often includes people with disabilities, who find synagogue attendance difficult due to accessibility issues, but want to make something work for the holiest of days.

RespectAbility’s resources include the new 5784 High Holiday Guide to Inclusive Congregations to assist you in making your High Holiday celebrations accessible. But changing our physical surroundings is only one side of the accessibility coin. We need to consider how the texts we interact with and teach have been used to promote ableism and/or would be considered ableist if written today. [continue reading…]

Matan Koch

For me, the musical background of the High Holiday season is my friend Neshama Carlebach gently inviting us to “Return to who you are, return to what you are.” Modern ideas of Teshuvah tend to focus on repentance and on forgiveness. Literally, the Hebrew word Teshuvah means “Return.” Maimonides tells us we have accomplished Teshuvah when we have “the opportunity to commit the same sin, but [we] separate… [ourselves] from it and …[do] not do it.” Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook and Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik taught that the heart of Teshuvah is humanity’s correction of ourselves. This strengthens and rekindles our connection to the Divine, recreating ourselves and our communities in a righteous image.

How can we return to our inclusive ideal and create a community where all belong? [continue reading…]

During our summer recess at RespectAbility, I was given the opportunity to serve as the Pastor of Pilgrim Pines Summer Camp in Southern California. I have written about Pilgrim Pines in a past newsletter edition regarding its inclusion of folks with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Pilgrim Pines is a profoundly sacred place for me. It is where my parents were married, where I came to know God in my adolescence, and where I discerned my call. So being asked to serve as the camp pastor was an honor and privilege beyond words for me. [continue reading…]

The Faith Inclusion and Belonging Team traveled to Waco, TX to participate in the Institute on Theology and Disability at Truett Seminary at Baylor University at the end of June. Founded in 2010 by RespectAbility board member, Bill Gaventa, the Institute annually gathers theologians, researchers, thought leaders, practitioners, and clergy to learn from each other.

The Institute is where you can get a cup of coffee or a glass of cold brew and an enormous blueberry muffin from Bitty and Beau’s while listening to a world renowned scholar like Dr. Hans Reinders. You can grab a plate of Tex-Mex food from a buffet and have a bite with friends and colleagues from Canada, New Jersey, and Brisbane, Australia. You can get to know people in the evenings, sharing stories and a bottle of wine.

RespectAbility is an in-kind sponsor of the Institute and I am on the Coordinating Council that plans and organizes it. Our team participated in two multi-faith panels: Reflections on Theology, Disability, and Belonging; and The Practice of Interfaith Inclusion: How’s it Working in Your Faith Tradition? Associate Ben Bond moderated both panels as presenters shared Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, Christian, and Hindu perspectives on disability and community. [continue reading…]

The disability community is built upon mutual flourishing. We know that our survival depends on each of us caring for one another in collective solidarity. As a disabled person I often feel quite lonely in my experience of disability. It can be a solitary endeavor to lie alone in your sick bed for days, weeks, and months at a time. One can be in a room full of people and feel alone trying to squeeze your disability into a box of normativity that helps others feel “comfortable” around you. We try to navigate these challenges the best that we can, but the social and physical isolation is exhausting.

While at Baylor University in Texas at the Institute on Theology and Disability, I felt the beautiful joy of being in community with other disabled people. It was a chance for us from our diverse disability experiences to come together and get to fully be ourselves. I hung on every word of the presentations I attended. Surprisingly, what happened outside the plenary rooms was just as educational. The learning happened as I walked to the dining hall accompanied by Cameron in his wheelchair calling out the best curb cuts for our friend Sarah to direct her guide dog Ursula to traverse down. It happened when I met with fellow disabled people like Jaime in the low sensory room who needed to rest from fatigue as I was laying down on the couch for pain relief as we talked about disability theology in Jane Austen novels. It was spending time at the AirBnB with Bekah, Greg, and Emma getting to unapologetically be out and proud of our disabilities. It was refreshing to socialize with people who just get it and don’t require an explanation for your non-normative existence. [continue reading…]

June is Pride Month, a month of profound and unending gratitude for me. I am an openly queer and disabled clergy person. Without the radical dreaming and action from our queer and disabled ancestors, my path would not be possible.

Disability and Queerness have always been intertwined, from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) classifying homosexuality a mental illness, to Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) disabling millions of queer community members. In the disability community our love and embodiment has always been queer. Our communities know how to love and embrace people and lifestyles that do not fit the norm.

I am named after a disabled and queer uncle who passed away from AIDS in the 1980s. He was a committed advocate against discrimination toward queer people with AIDS in the workplace. His death was the catalyst for my grandparents to join our LGBTQ affirming church. While there, they created AIDS support groups at the church, and slowly became surrogate parents for many queer people whose families had abandoned them. [continue reading…]

Queer and trans disabled folks are at the center of queer trans history and disability history, because the movements incubate and cross pollinate each other. For instance, during the 504 occupation, the owners of the lesbian bar in the East Bay brought shampoo and conditioner and washed people’s hair in an act of tangible solidarity and direct mutual aid. Trans artist and activist Leslie Feinberg’s last collection of work, a photoessay that documented life from their window as a chronically ill person, is another example of this overlap.

My friend Emet embodied intersectionality. He was a queer trans disabled chronically ill rabbinical student and rabbi. He served on the boards of NCIL and GLSEN. He was a person that people were drawn to, so naturally, a mutual aid network made up of queer trans chronically ill and disabled folks formed around him. The hospice center where Emet died was originally founded to care for HIV/AIDS patients. Whenever I visited, I always imagined the young queer and trans chronically ill networks of care that existed there together before us. [continue reading…]

Receiving an Meta Quest VR (virtual reality) headset as a Christmas gift in 2020 brought me immense excitement, primarily for the wide array of games and virtual experiences it offered. However, little did I know that this device would lead me beyond the realm of gaming and introduce me to an entirely new realm of religious services and spiritual exploration in the metaverse.

Prior to this, I had been engaging in online church services, seeking a sense of community and connection. It was during this time that I discovered the Word Of Grace Meta Church, led by Pastor Jonathan Long. Attending services in the metaverse opened up a whole new dimension of worship and spiritual growth for me. The immersive environment, combined with the guidance and leadership of Pastor Long (who we affectionately call Pastor Jonny), created a unique and meaningful experience. It allowed me to connect with fellow believers from around the world, transcending physical barriers and expanding my understanding of spirituality in the digital age. Immersing myself in a virtual reality church experience strengthened my connection to my Christian faith in ways I had never experienced before.

After participating in a few Sunday services, the impact was so profound that I encouraged seven more of my family members to invest in VR headsets. Now, we attend church services together, despite living in four different cities separated by an average distance of three hours. This new technology has eliminated the barriers that once prevented us from worshiping as a family. [continue reading…]